The week I escaped from Vietnam on the boat, I decided
what I can do for my country, my people and for the revolution, I will
do, serving it. I’m talented with music, and I decided to use
my knowledge and my talent.
I didn’t want to be a singer, but I thought
about what I could do for my country to forget myself, like a social
[professional] life or whatever I could do. And I thought that I’m
good in music. I wrote my own songs when I was thirteen, and all the
songs, the very old songs and my very first songs, talk about a princess
in Vietnam. She sacrificed herself to serve her country. So I thought
that whatever I could do, I was going to do. I thought that I’m
good in music, so I can use [this talent to serve my country]. [I decided
that] I can write my own songs to console people or to ask the Vietnamese
people to raise up, stand up don’t cry all the time, and get up
and back in the revolution, and we are going to fight until the last
days of the communists. They must be out of the country.
[The most important thing about being here]—besides
the freedom? yes, [freedom comes first]. Woman, [about being a] woman
is the thing I learned a lot from America and I learned it and I appreciate
it. About being a woman, woman can do a lot of things. People in my
country, from many, many years ago even, a woman cannot do anything.
. . . .In America a woman can go into the social [professional] life
and work and be successful. I saw lots of women in America, they can
do better than men. In America, I learned a lot and I got stronger spiritually,
and I feel that you can work, you can go out, and you can do [the same
things] just like a man.
I always tell my daughter that everyone has only
one life to live, so live and do whatever you can do. But just one thing,
when you think back about your life or back about what you’ve
done, never feel ashamed. And remember that giving away is accepting.
You just give away what you can give away, and people are going to give
back to you. Don’t ask people to give to you before you give away
to them.